Coach’em Hard and Hug’em Later


“He was tough and he was hard; as tough a man as I have ever known.”

“He kept pushing and pushing and pushing.’

“He drove you to exhaustion but was the most compassionate person I have known.”

“He suspended Joe Namath and Ken Stabler–two of his greatest quarterbacks–for breaking team rules.”

“He would tear you up on the field and then bring you into his office and ask how your Mom was doing.”

“He would find ways to help his players without letting them know that he was helping them.”

“He would jump in front of a bullet for his players.”

“He could pull people together, unify them and get them to commit to the mission.”

“His harsh, tongue lashings were not personal, he simply wanted to make you better.”

These are comments from players and coaches led by Paul “Bear” Bryant, the legendary football coach.

Today, a street, a museum and a stadium display Paul Bryant’s name.  And more than seven hundred children of his former players have received generous university scholarships from the Bryant Scholarship Fund.

Of course, there are critics of Bryant’s methods.  And many of his practices are surely not appropriate for most corporate cultures.  Still, I think the leadership philosophy of “Demand a lot and care for the person.” is a sound one.

Is It High-Structure or High-Freedom?


structure-freedom-17Malcolm, a successful manager says, “I run a tight ship.  We have standard operating procedures for how we perform our work and specific work rules for attendance, safety and social media.”

Employees who work for Malcolm comment:  “You know what is expected.”  “All you have to do to be successful is follow the rules.”  “It’s pretty efficient.”

Louella, who is also very successful, operates differently.  “We don’t have a lot of rules.  We train our people on how to do their jobs.  We do track outcomes religiously but we have very few rules or required processes.”

Louella’s employees say:  “She is easy to work for.”  “No one is looking over your shoulder all of the time.”  “If I wish to rearrange my work day, I can do it.”

Malcolm’s work environment is high-structure; Louella’s approach is high-freedom.  Which is better?

Both approaches may work.  Each culture requires managers to recruit employees who fit their styles.  High-structure fits some people like a glove.  For others, tight controls are suffocating.  Self-monitoring employees work well in high-freedom cultures; less conscientious employees act out like rebellious kids in junior high.

For the long run, I favor an approach that recruits and develops employees to function in a high-freedom environment—not complete freedom, however.  Expected outcomes and a few core values should be clear to all.

Companies that establish high-freedom cultures tend to have better success retaining good employees, providing better customer service, and earning reliable profits.  And managers spend less time watchdogging, patrolling and sanctioning.

What Young Leaders Can Learn from Wild Horses


horse-herd-17Leaders should focus on executing current processes (Make the trains run on time.); and, at the same time, strive for improvements.  (Build a better mousetrap.)

Executing current processes—most leaders do well; making things better—not so much.

A new manager said, “I’ve offered a suggestion here and there.  Usually, I get the response, ‘We’ve already tried that.’  Eventually, I quit trying.”

Horses in the wild, like humans in organizations, exist in groups and both establish rules for membership.  Among horse herds and human groups, the more experienced, smarter, and established members are reluctant to allow lessors to modify the current order.

Occasionally, however, a young ambitious colt will persistently challenge herd order and achieve greater influence.

I recall a CEO of a food franchise saying, “One of our new managers wanted to add a salad bar in his restaurant.  I said ‘Our customers won’t pay for salads.’  The new manager kept pestering me but I wouldn’t relent.”

Eventually, the store manager, acting like an ambitious and persistent young colt, took a risk and installed a salad bar.  Customers flocked to the salad bar—eventually the CEO required all stores to have salad bars.

The take-a-way for young leaders is, “Don’t underestimate the power of persistence!”

The Paradox of Power: Part 1


power-16“You can’t tell employees everything,” explained a manager.  “You have to select information that persuades them to do what you need.  There are things I do not tell my people.”

Another manager disagreed, “I think you have to tell all—the good the bad the ugly.   Even if the information is harmful to my position, I get it out.  If employees are going to follow your lead, they have to trust you to tell it like it is.”

Psychology professor, Dacher Keltner, in his book The Power Paradox, quotes numerous studies to show that most (not all) organizational leaders gain power by giving away the tools of influence.

Leaders rise in power by being grateful, generous and collaborative with their employees.  Followers believe these leaders to be looking out for the good of the whole and they want to contribute.

Leaders who try to influence by concealing, manipulating and deceiving actually lose power.  Employees eventually band together and, with the strength of numbers, refuse to execute the leaders’ directives.

Many of us, no doubt at some time in our career, have worked for a certified jerk.  Hopefully, we have also experienced leaders who downplayed their personal achievements while being grateful and generous in recognizing the help of others.

When it comes to giving the “extra effort” on an important assignment, the collaborative and generous leader gets my vote.